Secular Ideals Meet Frum Dating

Secular Ideals Meet Frum Dating: "Winning is everything: When two people date, it is often turned into a game of who will cave in and answer with a “yes” or “no” first. Shadchanim have to chase after both parties to find out what happened. Even when one wants to say yes, he or she will do so only after knowing if the other party said yes as well. It’s important to show interest in the person you are dating, even if it makes you vulnerable"