There is a story told that someone questioned what Hashem does all the years since creating the universe. The answer given was that He spends His time making shidduchim.
The Torah also teaches that finding one's shidduch is as difficult as the splitting of the Red Sea (Sanhedrin 22a). G-d is All Powerful and able to do anything. If this is true, then why should finding one's shidduch be as difficult as the splitting of the Red Sea? G-d can do anything!
One beautiful explanation I once heard was that it depends on our perspective. When you have the outlook and faith like that of Nachshon ben Aminadav -the first Jew to walk into the Red Sea then the splitting of the Red Sea is easy! Nachson ben Aminadav had pure faith that even though the sea was in his path, that somehow something would happen to change this. He began to walk into the sea, and by the time the waters reach close to his nose, they split!
Couretesy of: Leiv Esther
http://leivesther.blogspot.com/2008/06/shidduchim-as-difficult-as-splitting-of.html
http://torahonline.weebly.com/shidduchim.html
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Thursday, July 9, 2009
Leiv Esther
Leiv Esther: "Speedily they took Hillel down from the roof and brought him into the Beis Midrash. Despite being Shabbos, they did what was necessary to revive Hillel and placed him next to the warm fire. Shemaya and Avtalyon stated that it is permissible to desecrate Shabbos to save a human life and even more so for Hillel who had been dangerously sick from exposure to the cold and snow.
From this time on, Hillel studied together with these great sages until he too became one of our leaders. (Talmud, tractate Yoma 35b)
While it is true that money should not be an obstacle to studying Torah and Hillel clearly demonstrated. Nevertheless it is rare to find someone of the stature of Hillel in today's generation - a weakened generation. This story about Hillel shows us the potential that someone can have if given the right opportunity."
Hey folks its me bumping up a blog, with perhaps a familiar story. The Ikar I am getting to will be with the the links below. Adding my part ot trying to rebuild the Beis Hamikdash one brick at a time via Shadduchim!
http://leivesther.blogspot.com/2008/07/help-us-to-build-beis-hamikdash-by.html
From this time on, Hillel studied together with these great sages until he too became one of our leaders. (Talmud, tractate Yoma 35b)
While it is true that money should not be an obstacle to studying Torah and Hillel clearly demonstrated. Nevertheless it is rare to find someone of the stature of Hillel in today's generation - a weakened generation. This story about Hillel shows us the potential that someone can have if given the right opportunity."
Hey folks its me bumping up a blog, with perhaps a familiar story. The Ikar I am getting to will be with the the links below. Adding my part ot trying to rebuild the Beis Hamikdash one brick at a time via Shadduchim!
http://leivesther.blogspot.com/2008/07/help-us-to-build-beis-hamikdash-by.html